October 24, 2005
Introduction by Ambassador András Simonyi and Keynote Speech by Mickey Hargitay

 

Ambassador Simonyi:

Ladies and Gentlemen,

I want to welcome all of you, in particular my colleagues, Excellencies, fellow ambassadors, the representatives of the diplomatic community, and members of the U.S. House of Representatives, Congressman Manzullo. Thank you so much for coming. I'd also, in particular, like to welcome two very special guests tonight.

One guest is Mickey Hargitay, who will be saying a few words to you. Welcome Mickey and Ellen. We are very proud that you could join us tonight. You flew all the way from the other part of the country, the West Coast.

If I may ask Pál Maléter - Pali, would you please join me? Pali is the son of the Defense Minister of the Government of Imre Nagy, who was executed after the revolution. It is a great honor to call upon my friend – you should come up, too.

Ladies and Gentlemen,

What I would like to say is that the Revolution of 1956 commands respect wherever we Hungarians go. It commands respect in every sense of the word. What the heroes of 1956 did was not more and not less than creating the first crack on the totalitarian system of the Soviet Union. We are very proud, and I would like to welcome all of those compatriots who fled in 1956, who have suffered because of the suppression that Hungary had to undergo after the revolution failed.

Hungary today is an ambitious country, it is a prosperous country, it is a free country. It is a friend and an ally of the United States. The United States is our friend and ally and it is an inspiration to us, Hungarians. We are so proud that finally we are able to work side by side in many fields of life, in many walks of life, and we want to honor all those men and women who at this very moment fight shoulder to shoulder to keep our democracies free, whether it is in Afghanistan, whether it is in Iraq, whether it is serving a peace mission in Kosovo or Bosnia.

Next year will be the 50th anniversary. We will honor the memory of 1956 properly. We have initiated a month of Hungary, the "Hungarian October." So the whole next October will be a celebration of a free and democratic Hungary. We will be remembering and we will be looking ahead.

It is interesting that probably arts – for which Hungary is so well known – is going to be our best vehicle to send a strong message about the Revolution. Plácido Domingo has volunteered to help us bring the Hungarian national opera, Bánk Bán, to the United States and we are very proud of that.

We will also launch other projects. For example, we want to know how strong we are in the United States. So for those Hungarians who are here, I want to announce: finally, we will be doing a survey of Hungarian organizations in the United States. And then they will be really scared of us.

We will be assisting the Hungarian American Coalition to collect the oral history of those who lived through the revolution, many of whom fled the country after the Soviet occupation. And I want to congratulate the editors of this documentary that you saw here on the 1956 revolution. It was produced by the American-Hungarian Federation and I want to thank Imre and Zsuzsa Tóth.

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Without further ado, I would like to ask Mickey to say a few words. Mickey is a friend. He used to be Mr. Universe. To me, he is still Mr. Universe. I just want to say that the reason why I wanted Mickey to speak tonight is because a couple of months ago we attended an event. I have not heard anyone to speak with more passion about Hungary, about his new homeland, the United States, about freedom, and about what it meant to live a long life knowing that the loved ones are behind the iron curtain. So therefore I wanted Mickey to come over here, and I thank you, Mickey, for joining us. Please, the floor is yours. Ladies and Gentlemen, Mickey Hargitay.

 

Mickey Hargitay:

Thank you. Washington, D.C. The capital of the world. Decisions are made about countries – what they are going to do, what their future is going to be like. Leaders, prime ministers, kings, queens, even dictators are coming here for advice – even popes, clergymen, gurus. Everybody. The capital of the world. They are asking for advice, they are asking for money. This is America. America, the greatest country you could ever dream of. You cannot create a country like this. It is here. We have it, we treasure it.

I can tell you one thing: I am very pleased and very honored that my dear friend has asked me to come over here tonight for this reception. I really do not know exactly what I am going to say. Things are flashing into my mind, there is so much to say and I know how it is – it gets boring, especially when you are standing. I do not want to be boring.

But I tell you one thing: this is a great occasion, a reception for the Hungarian Revolution back in 1956. My heart went out for it the day when I heard it began.

I am a revolutionary. I started my own revolution at a very young age. I remember in 1944, Germany took over Hungary overnight, Horthy Miklós went into exile, Szálasi came in, and things got tough. And it got tougher and tougher. I remember I was praying for liberation. I was remembering all bombs that fell down – it was like 9/11 every day, sometimes all day. I went through, I survived.

Liberation happened. On April, 1945 I started seeing Russian soldiers coming in. I was in jubilee, I was happy. Soon, I had seen them coming like flies all over Budapest. I said, "My God, we are free! We are here, we are liberated." I hugged them. They rejected me. I did not like it. I felt bad. And I said, "What's going on here?" I don't get the reception that I expected. Soon after, at about the tail end of December 1945, as I was walking in the street, I was taken to prison. They put me in a bombed-out store. There were a bunch of young kids already there and they started talking and they said, "Well, they wanted to send us as prisoners of the war." I said, "What?" I stayed there for a couple of hours and I managed to escape. Now soon after some of the American soldiers came in, started putting representations in Budapest. Since I spoke only Hungarian, and my English was not as great as it should have been, but I made friends with them. And I saw then, there was trouble, something was not right. These people, the American people, they were wonderful, they gave me a Jeep to drive, I told them who I was. Driving a Jeep, an American Jeep, a 1944 Jeep – it is the greatest memory I have. I said, "Well, Mickey, you got to get out of here. There is no future here." I feel bad about it now, but I tell you one thing: I came to America and I built a bridge between the United States of America and Hungary, my native country.

I treasure Hungarians. I treasure my heritage. I treasure my upbringing. My mother said, "Mickey, you were born with a smile." She used to bake bread, she cut the bread just like that, cut the corner off. "Give me a corner," she said. "Mickey, go up the cherry tree and have lunch." We had a cherry tree in the garden and different types of fruit trees. My brother was already up there, I spread the bread and I gave it to him and we started talking and eating these big, beautiful cherries – crisp, crunchy. It was great. Memories like that I have, they are inerasable. I love my brothers and sisters. We were very close, but I was far away from them.

I was in America by 1947. I felt that I was the happiest man in the world. I am sitting on the top of the world, just like a kid, and I am sure, you had this feeling, all of you, most of you as immigrants here in America – I felt like I was a kid in a candy factory. Somebody said, "Go ahead, eat all you want." I tried to make something out of myself. I worked hard, I was enterprising. I've loved sports all my life, and I got involved in weight-lifting, bodybuilding in 1949.

By 1953, I got my American citizenship and I was nationally known as one of the champions of bodybuilding and weightlifting. I was proud of myself, I said, "Well, I want to be a success. I have all the opportunities here. I learned everything in Magyarország, in Hungary, which I can use here for my benefit."

In 1955, I was selected to represent United States of America in a Mr. Universe title against 45 countries in London, England – the Palladium. I could not believe it. I said, "Me, representing the United States?" A dream. I went. It was the first time I returned to England. Eight years before that, I tried to hassle out of there to get to New York. I was back in England. I felt bad. I asked organizers, "Listen, would you please be so kind, there are a bunch of flags right behind me, 45 countries, but I don't see a piros-fehér-zöld."  I asked them, "Would you please bring a Hungarian flag? My roots are still there, I am Hungarian. I am representing America. Please bring one up here." The flag was there. I was fortunate. I was riding a dream again. I was crying as Mr. Universe 1955. And you know, this evening I heard the national anthems, the Hungarian national anthem, and then the American national anthem. Over there they played the American national anthem, they were not prepared to play the Hungarian national anthem. But I was humming the Himnusz, "Isten, áldd meg a magyart!" I had it in my mind. I was born Hungarian – this is the greatest claim I have to fame in life and here I am talking to you now. I can carry on, believe me. I am sure you all have experiences the same way like I do.

I am very fortunate because 38 years ago I married a young lady who became the instant mother of my children, who had lost their mother in a tragic car crash. You may remember it was Jayne Mansfield. Our daughter – this young lady raised her. She is a big star. Why do I deserve all this? I tell you why: because of my roots, because I am Hungarian. I am proud to be Hungarian and I am happy to be here. Now I don’t want to stretch this too long, but I can carry on.

I'd like all of you to take a moment, close your eyes, and think of all those great heroes, all those great people who fought in the Revolution in 1956. And don't let anybody tell you that they did not change the world. They did change the world. Everything that happened after 1956 was because of the victory in 1956. It wasn't a defeat. It was a victory. That is the way I look at it. Don't let anybody tell you different. You can look at it in the books, you can look at it on the Internet and all over. It was a victory. Because it will not happen today. I'll bet you two to one if you ask President George Bush today: "If you turned back the clock, what you would have done?" He would have said, "In an hour I would have sent tanks in and I would have straightened everything out." Kennedy did this. Why Kennedy did this with the Khrushchev situation in the Atlantic? Because of our Hungarian revolution. You don't have to go too far, these people are not stupid. They are presidents. So, Ronald Reagan – I had the pleasure to knew Ronald, Ronnie – he was a great guy. He had enough balls to go over there and tell Khrushchev. "Tear down this wall!" And you want me to tell you something? The wall went down. Why? Because of the 1956 Hungarian Revolution. It was a victory. That is the way I feel about it, that is the way I give it to you. Nobody is going to tell me different, because there is no "different."

So now I would like to pay tribute, just one moment of silence. That’s including Nagy Imre, because he is a guy who proved it that if the people lead, the leader follows. He followed. He said the same words that the revolutionaries said. He gave his life, and now I would like to take a moment of silence for the known and the unknown who died and gave their lives for this great cause, which changed the world.

Thank you. God bless you all. Isten, áldd meg a magyart!